Any Topic To Speak

 so let's begin have you ever faced this

common situation where you don't know

what to say next

so you give out information in a

confusing manner now what's the reason

behind it it happens when you don't

mentally plan what you need to say and

let me tell you even the best speakers

cannot speak fluently if they don't

mentally plan what they want to say but

then how to mentally plan while

communicating there's no time you know

in writing we get the opportunity to

plan and we can rewrite the message but

speaking doesn't work like that

I say you follow the three question

approach so whenever you get any topics

given to you remember these three

questions in your mind and start talking

about them on start answering them

whenever you're speaking on a topic what

the topic means why it's important and

what are some examples I'm going to use

this particular technique on speaking or

I'll be speaking on the topic listening

and let me show you how it works what

the topic means listening essentially

means so interpreting what the other

person is saying why it's important it's

important to understand people better

its embody for effective communication

without listening it's very difficult to

have a smooth conversation with anyone

what are some examples one example would

be if you're listening to me and you can

interpret what I'm saying correctly then

you're actively listening more examples

could be like my friends they don't want

to listen at all they're bad listen so

that's a bad example for listening even

though we have two ears and one mouth

for some reason people like to talk more

and directly like listen next however if

we talk about a customer service

environment or business environment or a

job interview

we have to listen it's not just about

talking

you have to listen actively so that the

other person also feels important so did  you notice how I use these three 

since to talk about this particular

topic now if I did not have these three

questions mentally planned then it would

be difficult to speak with the right

with an organized thought flow so that's

why these questions really help you

organize your thoughts lo I've even

given this example in the fluency

section in my book you know to help you

get more fluent and then it's not just

about talking it's also about you need

to team up your the topic that you're

speaking about you need to team it up

with the right intonation energetic and

an expressive tone and the correct rate

of speech let's discuss these in detail

what is intonation intonation is the

rise and fall of your voice while

speaking this is exactly what's going to

make you sound human and not like a

robot to see an intonation pattern it

goes like this you know that's how your

installation battle looks like when

you're speaking like a human being and

not like a robot now the question is how

do you in turn eight very effective

speakers usually follow a very simple

your pattern and these are very common

techniques that people use to intonate

you stress the key word so whenever

you're speaking the most important words

in a conversation you stress them and

that's why certain words will have more

stress than the other and that's going

to make you internet better and then you

don't press the weak word for example to

is though these are not the words that

give you the maximum information so you

don't really stress them however do

pronounce them do not eat them up and

then you drop your pitch at the end of

sentences for example if I'm saying my

name is Li - I would drop my pitch at

the end L say Li - I would not say my

name is Li - and just leave it there you

know without any pitch variation so all

the speakers they drop their pitch

whenever we end a sentence for example

right now I ended up sentence so I

dropped my pitch they also drop their

effective speakers drop their pitch at

the end of open-ended questions - now

open-ended questions are

that give you more information they

usually begin with how why what when

where B whenever you ask this question

you will always get a longer answer

examples have to say how far do you

think you'll go or how effectively do

you think you'll be able to speak so I'm

dropping my pitch at the end of the

open-ended question raise your pitch at

the end of closed-ended questions now

close any questions or questions that

elicit or yes or no answer

means you will either get a yes or a no

from the listener when you ask this

question for example do you like

speaking in English you like coffee so

if this I'm raising my pitch at the end

I'm asking you like coffee and saying

you like coffee or do you want to speak

in English so remember that at the end

of clothes any questions you raise your

page and at the end of sentences that

open-ended questions you drop your pitch

and this is going to help you intonate

better not as intonation even with

choices so effective speakers make sure

that they internet and they use these

simple rules if I have to give a choice

to someone I am going to raise my pitch

at the end of the first two choices and

I will drop my pitch at the end of the

last choice the reason being that when I

raise my pitch at the end of the first 

two choices I'm trying to tell the

listener that there's more coming and

when I drop my pitch at the end of the

last choice I'm trying to tell the

listeners that no more options so if I

have to read this particular question I

would say you like tea coffee or milk

shake I'm going to say do you like tea

that uses more coming coffee there's

more coming and milkshake now it ends

there's no more options along with

information you need to team it up with

the right tone let's read this in the

wrong tone first okay for example

someone says I love my book and then you

say oh that's bad news now this is

definitely not the right tone for this

particular statement right so it's very

important to use the right tone in the

right situation if someone thing I lost

my book oh that's

Moo's we do have the right home and

obviously when you're when you're

speaking sort of an audience it's

important to give tone variations make

it funny

make it energetic make it very

professional you can even be serious if

they're discussing something serious but

you have to give a tone variation rate

of punch also needs to be taken care of

I feel really conscious that I say that

is because I myself at times speak

really fast

whoever always ask yourself a question

are you going to visit train in the next

five minutes if not then speak slowly

now in India we have a habit of speaking

a little too fast but we should you know

slow down our rate of speed sometimes

when we listen to native speakers of

English language we feel like they're

speaking fast but let me tell you they

speak pretty slowly you know it will be

the sound or fluid that's why we think

that they're speaking fast the

recommended reading speech is 120 to 150

words per minute so what you need to do

next is you know pickup of any book read

something and try to practice 120 to 150

words per minute

do not speak more than that in a minute

another technique would be if you know

if you are used to reading that means to

the next level

pick up any sweet speech topics use the

three question technique and count the

number of words that you speak in a

minute so you realize if you're speaking

too fast then you will want to slow down

if you're speaking too slow then you'll

want to increase your rate of speech a

bit so while you practice this technique

I'm going to go out hunting for more

techniques for you guys till then enjoy

practicing have a great day bye bye